Every minute of the day, every single day, Couples break up, and/or, head to Divorce courts, for all the wrong reasons, the first of which is SELFISHNESS, which leaves one of the two, racked in pain, suffering, agony, and despair, that then, leads to a whole vortex of other problems...
REAL LOVE, that kind *GOD* teaches, does NOT leave others feeling anything negative!!!
Some of the selfishness which causes splits in relationships is premised upon desire, lust, greed, and attention deficit; the point is, self-control has been tossed aside in favour of personal gratification; AGAIN, NOT of REAL LOVE!!!
Looks, a good body, and ALL externals ARE going to be altered with time, which goes by WAY faster than we believe, then, there is little left for the person whom heralded such, especially, if they have not developed in the spirit, AND, if they have thrown away TRUE LOVE in favour of their so-called needs, they face the probability of NEVER finding it again, unless they have changed...
The evil one IS at work in relationships, most definitely in the people whom remain in the world, and just HAVE to appease themselves over all others! Thus, *GOD* SHOULD be the foundation on which Couples build their relationship, and this more than in word, or thought, because once someone is wooed by the evil deceiver, it is difficult to pull them back! NOT impossible, still, difficult!!!
When one is high on themselves, they CAN'T see *GOD*! When one can't see *GOD*, they are lost in the darkness, and will face what lies in that darkness! All through humanity, it IS the work of those of THE LIGHT, to grab those in the darkness, and HELP them to be freed from that darkness, and it is NOT easy, when someone is full of themselves, because evil is strongly working in them...
There are pre-marital classes, which introduce one to thinking BEFORE they commit, yet, these are as basic as the word itself! People NEED to be TAUGHT LOVE, the LOVE OF *GOD*, and the far-reaching, destructive consequences of ignorance, selfishness, and other delusions that mar their lives, and the lives of those associated with them!!!
THINK, LONG, and HARD BEFORE you commit, and after you do, that, you WON'T act outside of LOVE, or at best, work through what is problematic! THINK about ALL the people involved in your life, and your relationship, and the effects your selfishness will have, not to mention the length of these effects! BE RESPONSIBLE IN *GOD*, and IN LOVE!!!
Some hear the cry of their desires OVER all else, and are unequipped because of lack of *GOD*, and understanding to control them! This is a shame, and IS one of the reasons this world is SO troubled! So what if your desires are crying out, ARE they your ruler? Are they NOT controllable? Are they the measure of WHOM you are? Believe me, when you TRY your ability to CONTROL, it is easier than you might imagine, and IS SO much more satisfying, in the now, and forever!!!
DON'T be slaves to your desires, to your selfishness, to your lack of knowledge, and understanding, for the consequences are extensive, if not eternal...
LOVE AS *GOD* DOES, and all will be well, even in times of disturbances!!!
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In America, there is one divorce every 13 seconds. That’s 6,646 divorces per day, and 46,523 divorce per week.
The average length of a marriage that ends in divorce is eight years.
People wait an average of three years after a divorce to remarry (if they remarry at all).
The average age for couples going through their first divorce is 30 years old.
Statistics say that Divorce has dropped as of 2013, but, less people are getting Married, so, that would make sense.
Russia, Aruba, & the USA, in this order, have the highest Divorce rates in the world. Not long ago, this list was different, with the USA way down near the bottom, but, times have changed...
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