People IMAGINE that if someone they know, or someone in their Family line tells them something, it is true, after all, why would someone they know, tell them something that is not so? Few people ever stop to consider that there are at least, 2 sides to everything, and that not all of what we hear, read, or see is accurate, or the full truth. Then, this is further complicated when people WANT to find a reason to dislike someone, or are followers of someone who doesn't like, or accept someone...
*GOD* DOESN'T like gossip, slander, prejudice, bias, or any behaviour which is unfair, and unjust towards another! Of course, it is doubtful that anyone has managed to keep themselves out of this snare, yet, as one matures IN HIM, one should DEFINITELY be studying the roots of the soundness of WHY THE LORD doesn't allow for such! One should take the time to notice the many lives which have been TOTALLY ruined by such, the lives that have been shattered by such, and the spirits which have been broken by such, including high numbers of our youth! IF we LOVE as HE has bid us to, and IF we LOVE HIM, we OUGHT to be able to understand HOW such behaviours are against LOVE, as well as the massive damage such does...
Many people lie about people to cover up their own mistakes, faults, and flaws; many lie to keep attention from themselves; many lie to purposely cause someone else pain; many lie to make themselves appear to be elevated; many lie because they enjoy causing problems for others, and on the list could go! Sadly, many of the troublemakers of this world are people that others admire, are popular, or respected, and so forth, therefore, what they utter IS accepted as truth, even without anyone researching, or considering the other side of the story. In recent years, LOTS of people have taken their own lives after suffering greatly from the damages of gossip, slander, and those behaviours THE LORD is against, because they weren't able to deal with the agony of not being believed, trusted, or accepted, because one, or more, decided to disrupt their lives...
Compounding the problems for the person being attacked, is the fact that much of the gossip, slander, bias, prejudice, and so forth, is as hidden as possible, and there is little chance of confronting those who are causing damage, though the victim certainly, senses it, sees it, and has to deal with various things because of it! Great frustration sets in, for it is like battling an unseen force, and if none of the perpetrators are willing to deal with it head on, there is no getting past it, nor proving one's innocence, and so, the person, little by little, is broken...
There are 52 references for gossip in THE BIBLE, 100 for gossiping, 100 for slander, 41 for slandering, 29 for false witness, 56 for false witnessing, 58 for busybodies, 21 for prejudice, 100 for bias, 100 for deception, 90 for deceiving, and on, and on it goes, although more than a few of these verses cross over into all categories. The point is, THE LORD HAS LOTS to say about those who create problems for others, especially with their mouths, and that which is unsubstantiated, for wrong-minded purposes!!!
This world, today, is full of people who like to bully, to pick on others, to put others down, and to cause problems for others, AND, many Adults, such as Parents, even Teachers, are setting the standard for Children, for they learn by example, and so, it is getting quite out of hand! I know people whom actually, have their young Daughters eavesdropping, and spying on others, so that they can put together some juicy gossip, which they do way too frequently, and build upon with just a smidgeon of information, and before you know it, lots of people have determined that the person who is their target, is not worthy. Just sad, and a bit crazy...
One can't really fight against such behaviours, and if one is the target of these behaviours, they need to PRAY, and become as strong as a mountain, because it will spiral forth, and disrupt their lives greatly. They need to stand strong, and not be shaken, though when there are lots of people against someone, it can be most difficult! They need to keep on being whom they are, and to continue on being the best person that they can be, and they need to realize that the ONE JUDGE, *GOD* KNOWS their truth! They need to truly embrace the message that we live NOT for the world, instead for *GOD*, and we are NOT here to please the world, instead our LORD, though again, it is a most difficult task, and they need to forgive, to continue in LOVE, and to BLESS those who harm them!!!
It is awful that so many THINK they are something, and that others are nothing, but as is written, For if anyone thinks he is something when he is nothing, he deceives himself (GALATIANS 6:3), and they WILL discover their truth too! Also, whatever one conspires against another, has a way of coming back on their own heads, be that in this time, or when they stand before THE LORD, for HE will NOT be mocked, and KNOWS our truth, thus what we sow, we reap...
REV. LWINSOR © 2014
IF we had respect, and regard for one another, we would realize that a persons reputation, takes years to build up, but is quickly destroyed by one bad whisper, which is especially wrong IF that person is never allowed to share their side of the story, or to prove their integrity! When someone spreads falsehoods, or unsubstantiated rumors about someone to everyone they know, or meet, they are acting unaligned TO *GOD*, and causing permanent hardship, in which case, there IS consequence...
We should aim to KNOW before we speak, act, and react! Quite often, those most fired up about someone, don't have anything but their passions to go on, and if they took the time to KNOW the truth about those they wish to destroy, quickly the flames would be extinguished...
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